My father has a court date on November 9, 2004. He has been arrested for molesting my 10 year old neice. This all started after my older sister's house burnt down. My sister and her kids moved in until they found a new home. My neice told my sister about the molesting after she had overheard a conversation with my baby sister. My baby sister had just came over to tell my oldest sister about my father who had beaten her in one of his rages. She said she was going to have him arrested, so my neice thought he was already in jail. That is when my neice got brave enough to tell. We even found out in the investigation that he had made her 9 year old brother help hold her down while he hurt her. Then he would beat my nephew afterwards and threaten them.
I pray my father goes to Prison because he deserves to be punished. The prosecutign attorney is thinking about giving him probation, but he has to register as a sex offender in whatever state he lives in. I can just see myself introducing my future husband to my "sex offender" father. My mom kicked him out and he keeps asking my Mom to take him back. She has decided to divorce him instead. He blames my mom for him molesting my neice. She wouldn't have sex with him everytime he wanted. He said he would be sitting at home thinking about my Mom and see my neice and think she'll do for now. How sick is that? He is living with his own mother right now, but she want's him to move out. This disease as I call it affects every son my grandmother has given birth too. Their uncle started molesting my dad's older brother who then molested my dad and his sisters. I pray this viscious cycle ends with my father. I pray he hasn't passed it on to my nephew.
He will always be my father and I will always love him. I will try to understand and forgive him someday. I even have to learn to trust him again because trust was shattered that day. Time hopefully will mend all wounds.